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The Unashamed Love Collective is a membership-based community of LGBTQ+ people, allies, parents, family members, and affirming faith leaders.
Membership commitments are for 6 months at a time.
See below for more details!


The Unashamed Love Collective is open to people of all sexual orientations, gender identities, and faiths. Full of spiritual nomads (many of whom are deconstructing from an evangelical or conservative faith background), ULC has become a safe haven for LGBTQIA+ people as well as allies, parents of LGBTQIA+ kids, faith leaders, and more. The group has members from coast to coast and even a few around the globe, and the age of participants ranges from early 20s to late 70s. If you’re wondering if this space is for you, the answer is: YES! All you need is a desire to listen, learn, and grow! 

How do I join?

Registration for Season 4 begins at 10am MST on February 1st. People are encouraged to register early as space is limited.

When are the monthly meetings?

Our monthly virtual gathering takes place on the last Monday of every month from 6-8 pm MST. The gathering is always recorded and posted in the Facebook group for those who are unable to attend live.

Do you offer scholarships?

A limited number of scholarships are available for each season. To be considered, please email

Admin@UnashamedLoveCollective.com. Put “Scholarship Request” in the subject line and a request form will be sent to you.

What other resources are available to members?

ULC offers ways to connect with other members in your local area, an opt-in directory of members' location and contact info, and resource lists for additional opportunities to learn and engage.

How much does it cost?

Membership is $30/month and your card is charged on the 1st of each month. Patreon supporters receive a 10% discount!

How is the monthly meeting structured?

The first hour of the meeting includes opening announcements and small group breakout sessions focused on book discussion. The second hour features our live author interview and a group Q&A session with the author.

What special events does ULC host?

Each quarter ULC hosts a special virtual event featuring an expert on a specific topic that is not tied to our book of the month (mental health, legislature change, intersectional identities, ending conversion therapy, healing from purity culture, etc.). These events are open to the public and tickets are offered to ULC members at a discounted rate!

Is this group a safe space?

Yes. There is a zero-tolerance policy for homophobia, transphobia, or hate speech of any kind and the group is a private space to protect those who are closeted. ULC is also a safe space for people to learn and explore who they are and what they believe. Anyone that cannot adhere to the guidelines will be removed.

What is included in the membership?

  • Monthly book club meetings featuring small group discussions, live author interviews, and author Q&A.

  • Mid-month Zoom hangouts to foster community. 

  • Access to a private Facebook group with all ULC members. (Note: Throughout the month you can interact with other members both inside and outside the private Facebook group. Some even meetup in person!)

  • Weekly discussion questions to spark discussion around the book's content and facilitate conversation.

  • Discounted tickets to quarterly public ULC events.

Is the book of the month included in the membership fee?

No. However, the book of the month can often be found using your local library apps, and links to purchase the book are provided in the Facebook group each month. At the end of each month's gathering, one person's name is drawn to receive a free copy of the next month's book!

When does the next season begin?

Our next season begins on March 1, 2022 and runs through August 2022.